P is for Polyandry
Confession time: I wrote today's post well before yesterday's, which is why this seems a little anticlimactic. View it then as more of an explanation than anything else...
Yesterday, I mentioned that Choden is engaged to Tashi and his two older brothers - yes, all three of them! This isn't a form of feminist matriarchal society, though; it's an adaptation to life in a place with limited fertile land, designed to prevent family land and wealth from being split between multiple sons, and it's called polyandry.
Yes, I did post about this once a while ago, but this post is different, I promise. Plus, it might perhaps be said that I was groping blindly for a topic for the letter 'P'. It's possible.
So, anyway, for all you newcomers, what is polyandry? I'm so glad you asked! As Wikipedia says, it's "a form of polygamy whereby a woman takes two or more husbands at the same time." And it just so happens that Tibet, which is where one of the lifetimes in my WIP takes place, is one of the very few areas in the world where it was widely practiced.
And that means that I get to write about what might happen when a woman is betrothed to three brothers, one of whom she's been secretly in love with since she was a young girl. Thank you, research!
hmmmm-sounds interesting and that girl loves the one brother but has to sleep with the other 2? The plot thickens.
ReplyDeleteI'd never heard of polyandry before. Here's to equal time for the women. :D
ReplyDeleteDon't you love it that in our society if you say "polygamy" people immediately think of Mormons, but if you say "polyandry" the response is most often "What's that?" Seems we tend to focus on only one side of the same coin. :)
ReplyDeleteOne woman for three men? I feel sorry for her.
ReplyDeleteMy first thought was of Diana Gabaldon's character who married a set of twins. But that was by her choice, and Diana's characters called her a polygamist. Hadn't heard the -andry term until I'd read it on your blog.
ReplyDeleteAs soon as I saw the title I started thinking about yesterday's post. It's still such a crazy concept to me.
ReplyDeleteTrue Heroes from A to Z
Research can bless us with riches, but struggling through it to find that gem can be long & tedious work. Kudos!
ReplyDeleteKathy @ Swagger Writers
This is a relationship schematic I've never, ever read in fiction -- A++ for originality and I JUST CAN'T WAIT TO READ IT!
ReplyDeleteHoly cow! I can barely handle the one husband I have...I can't imagine being married to three!!
ReplyDeleteThat sounds like it would be a lot of fun to explore in fiction :)
ReplyDeleteMore than one sounds like a chore to me :P. Have fun figuring out those answers!
ReplyDeleteI thought it was polygamy whether the man or the woman did it. Polyandry. I like the sound of that word, but one husband is fine for me!
ReplyDeleteOooh, I need to move to Tibet!! (Just kidding.) Very interesting. I'm familiar with polygamy, but I don't know much about polyandry.
ReplyDeleteOh goody, I can have one husband to do the yard work, and another to clean the house.
ReplyDeleteI heard of polyandry long ago. It's interesting seeing tables turned with a woman able to have more than one husband. This part of your story sounds like it'll be amazing.
ReplyDeleteAs a married women with just one man I love dearly but ... I can't imagine having three men around. Sounds like a lot of work for one woman.
ReplyDeleteMan is this rife with possibilities on how to make this relationship go! Great stuff!
ReplyDeleteUmm, no thanks. I love my husband with all my heart but I only want one of him. =P
ReplyDeleteI love the research you're putting into your book, Liz. Super impressive!
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